Book: The Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife's Heart Forever
Author: Scott Haltzman
Pages: 288
Format: pdf
Language: English
ISBN10: 0787994146
Did Dr. Haltman spy on my wife and me? I've been married for more than five years. I'm very competent at my work (sales) but my wife makes me feel like I'm incompetent at marriage because I don't do thing like she does. He describes my situation to a tee.
I bought this book because I liked the premise: that men have different abilities than women, but can use them to make marriage better. This is a great book! It made me feel better about myself, has reinforced things I felt about my contribution to the marriage.
Better yet, when I do some of the things the author suggests, it really works, especially when it comes to dealing with conflict (Chapter is called: Expect conflict and learn to deal with it). One example, I started to focus on what she was saying, rather than on what my response to her words. It cut back on the tension when we "debate" things. I think my wife likes that I am reading hte book. (She reads this stuff more than I do usually)
When I'm done re-reading the book, I'll give it to my wife to read. Then we'll all be "on the same page".
I highly recommend this book. Can I give it more than 5 stars?
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